How to Communicate with an Alpha Female by Goddess Helly

If you are fortunate enough to find yourself in the presence of an Alpha Female, you need to be very careful about the things you say and do, or else you won’t be in Her presence for long. Proper etiquette, particularly as it pertains to language, is of the utmost importance. When communicating with an Alpha Female, be sure to keep these things in mind:

1) Always address Her by Her preferred title. Some women prefer to be called Mistress. Some prefer Goddess. Others may prefer something else such as Miss, Queen, Ma’am, etc. It is your responsibility to know or to learn which title your Domme likes. I prefer to be called Goddess Helly or Mistress Helly, and I expect you to address me as such at all times.

2) Always use complete, clear sentences. Many submissives make the mistake of thinking spelling and grammar are unimportant, but that is certainly not the case. Taking the time and care to construct complete, thoughtful sentences demonstrates to the Alpha Female that you have put the necessary thought and effort into your attempts to communicate with Her. As a result, she will be far more inclined to want to take the time out of Her busy day to respond to you.

3) Do not make demands of an Alpha Female. This one should be self-explanatory. You are in no position to make demands of a superior woman. Polite requests are acceptable (particularly when accompanied by some form of tribute); demands are not.

4) Everything you say and do should reflect your understanding of the Alpha Female’s superiority. This is more of a catch-all, general rule but it is important nonetheless. Your mindset should be that of a true submissive and everything you say to an Alpha Female should demonstrate this attitude. Before sending any communication to a superior woman, take a moment to ensure that your words adequately reflect a submissive tone and demonstrate your understanding that you are, in fact, inferior to Her.

Follow these rules (as well as common sense) and you are far more likely to have success when communicating with an Alpha Female. And if for some reason you choose not to do so, you will surely be passed over in favor of someone who communicates more appropriately.

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3 Comments Add yours

  1. sgtjdusar says:

    Good and interesting article

    As a man, it is always respectable to give any Woman due respect and honor. Especially those who are welcoming of my presence.

    As a submissive I personally consider it a great honor to be communicating with and / or to be in the presence of a Dominant Woman. So such a s Woman should be given that honor to the best of my ability. Always a good idea to pay special attention to her status and to hope that she would appreciate that respect and honor. Which to a man is a great natural drive. Coming from a Dominant Woman (As Goddess Helly refers to “Alpha Female”). acknowledging the work of submissive at least for me, is a double bonus. Particularly when the Dominant Woman appreciates the efforts.

    “1) Always address Her by Her preferred title. Some women prefer to be called Mistress. Some prefer Goddess. Others may prefer something else such as Miss, Queen, Ma’am, etc.

    Agreed. Though I have issues with titles that are not validated or without authority If a Dominant Woman wants to be referred to as a Princess, Goddess or Mistress always best to agree to it. Maybe work out the details later.

    “2) Always use complete, clear sentences. Many submissives make the mistake of thinking spelling and grammar are unimportant, but that is certainly not the case. Taking the time and care to construct complete, thoughtful sentences demonstrates to the Alpha Female that you have put the necessary thought and effort into your attempts to communicate with Her.”

    Agreed. I make plenty of misspellings. Being in a Spell Check World. Always best to review such things as an Email before sending it.

    “3) Do not make demands of an Alpha Female.”

    This can be difficult. Until you get to know the Dominant the best thing to do is watch how your words can be taken. I once asked a Dominant for a favor which I did not think she would have an issue with only to get a stern rebuke. Not a good feeling. Especially when it was not intended to be seen as a demand or as an ultimatum

    “4) Everything you say and do should reflect your understanding of the Alpha Female’s superiority”

    What Goddess Helly posted on this point; Ditto.

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  2. JoyceTS says:

    I’m having a “deja-vu” here. Theodora published a similar article on her website a few months ago…
    She is an inspiration for many of us, and needed to mention her blog from which you probably got your inspiration…

    Like

  3. JoyceTS says:

    I’m having a “deja-vu” here. Theodora published a similar article on her website a few months ago…
    She is an inspiration for many of us, and I needed to mention her blog from which you probably got your inspiration…

    Like

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