Elite Femdom Mz Kim Discusses Kink, BDSM and American Leather in an All-New Artist Spotlight

Elite Femdom Mz Kim Discusses Kink, BDSM and American Leather in an All-New Artist Spotlight

This week we shined the spotlight on Asian provocateur and nylon fetishist Mz Kim, as she opens up about her past influences and personal experiences with kink, BDSM and more in this week’s new Artist Spotlight.

Exclusively from iWantClips.

Lets get right into it

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If you could have one gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it— what would it say and why?

Mz Kim:     “I am the holder of your secrets; they are safe with me.  Spill them all to Me, so that you may be set free.

and on a separate billboard:

“Give in, Give up, Give Over”

Where would fetish and BDSM be, if there weren’t an air of mystery, a sense of shame, a need to veil our deepest desires?  Probably in a better place.  But, it is this sense of secrecy, of taboo, that excites me and fuels me as well.  

I tried to imagine a phrase or a short sentence that really describe what I’m about, and other than my usual tag line (Give in, Give up, Give Over), this was the closest I could get.  It’s rather long for a billboard, but let’s be honest, you would only look at the image, anyway. No?

And regarding the image behind my words…  I find that I speak very well in images.  I have extensive modeling experience, and the joy and depth I feel when creating still or moving images can only be understood in seeing the final product. 

So, back to the tag line regarding secrets… this conversation would be between me, the key-holder, and you, who wants to be known, to be understood, and not to be judged for what you want and need.  I am not someone who will belittle you for what you desire, unless that’s what you’re all about, in which case, get down and lick my dirty shoes, you nasty little perv.”

Something about you that would surprise your audience?

Mz Kim:     “I am a survivor of violence.  My understanding and incorporation of domination in my work and lifestyle is partially a product of having been a survivor. I am a prime example of how bdsm can be a positive way towards overcoming past traumas.  Both in my personal and professional life, I have incorporated and loved bdsm and kink as cathartic and healing vehicles.  

I have written about this on my blog, if you should be interested in knowing more. 

Some might conclude that I became a dominatrix because of the abuse I endured, as a way to assert control or bring down the patriarchy.  My response to that is: I don’t need to be a domina to be in control.  And being attracted towards kink was always in my personality.  As in, I would have gravitated towards all the fascinating facets of kink without having been a survivor. 

On the patriarchy note, some are surprised that I do not hate men.  I much rather manipulate, dominate, abuse and use, play with and twist them around my finger… than to simply disengage and simmer in boring old hate.” 

What was the last gift you gave someone?

Mz Kim:    “I bought dinner for one of my best friends.   I also gave a video as a gift to one of my favourite subs.  I do appreciate service.  I appreciate respect and trust placed in me.  So I made a video of me in glorious shiny latex sitting on his face POV (point-of-view, as in, acting as if the camera is the audience) style.”

What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months (or in recent memory)? 

Mz Kim:     Oh, without question, my curved, steel dildo.  It might be appreciated more as a piece of art if it didn’t bring so much pleasure for me and the person I use it on/with.  The weight of it, its smooth cold-at-first exterior lends to excellent g-spot stimulation and deep cunt work.  

What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?

Mz Kim:     “This is not absurd.  This is simply love.  I love window shopping on eBay for vintage leather jackets and vintage hosiery.  I hardly wear vintage leather, as my contemporary leather collection keeps me rather busy, but I love the style of vintage American leather pieces.  I WILL wear vintage hosiery, though, as well as modern nylons.  

My love for lingerie and hosiery is reflected in my Nom De Guerre title, Asian Provocateur.  It is a play on the high-end lingerie company named Agent Provocateur, as well as my well-versed knowledge of Bond films and the sleek suit-wearing, high powered agents I adore.  I have a kink for almost all things nylon.  Fully-fashioned stockings, seamed pantyhose, seamless nylons paired with latex garters and gloves.  I could go on.  But then, you would need to schedule a session.  

I also love cooking fresh seafood.  I mean, I will go to the Asian market, aggressively pick out a live crab (as I yell at the fishmonger that the left claw is missing, what kind of operation are you running here, anyway?) and then cook it myself at home.  I make a mean Ginger Scallion Crab.  I have some messy, hilarious stories I can tell about dealing with live crustaceans.”

What’s your favorite ’90s jam?

Mz Kim:     “Jam?  Ugh.  Tupac. But he didn’t jam.  Did he?  I referred to myself as a Thug For Life once to a client.  He was tickled pink about my reference and seemed to be really impressed.  It was a little condescending.  Women who are elegant, Asian and dominant can’t listen to Tupac and Biggie? “

You walk into a market and buy only three things, what are they and why?

Mz Kim:     “Eggs, bread, tomatoes.  You can get so many varieties and make so many dishes with these things… These items bring me so much pleasure.” 

What was the last job you held before joining iWantEmpire?

Mz Kim:     “I have been a dominatrix for over 10 years.  So, before joining IWantEmpire, I was and still am a Distance Lifestyle Adjutant.  Primarily.  My personal bdsm lifestyle aside, my primary work has been in fetish and domination.  Before that, my experience was in the corporate world, which can explain some of my sense of discipline.”

How did you get started on iWantClips?

Mz Kim:     “There is no doubt that IWC has the cleanest, best-looking platform for videos.  I have only been making video content for about a year, but there was no way I wouldn’t join.  The aesthetic appeal is great, and the people behind the company really seem to get it.”

Closing thoughts from Mz.Kim:    

Mz Kim:     “Before this year, I had worked quietly and diligently in the shadows, unknown and very private.  My personal experience in BDSM has made me the capable domina you now see.  But, my work has almost always been online.  My coming out onto the world stage, so to speak, via my website and on social media platforms has made me feel vulnerable at times.  But as with all things worth doing, I have found that my influence extends rather far.  I like knowing that I can be both sides of the same coin riding good and evil; playing with both dark and light, and sensually combining them into one total powerful package.”

 

For more Mz Kim check out her iWantClips store, Twitter Page or Blog