Let’s get right into it
How did you get into findom and kink? How has it positively impacted your life? Any advice for anyone wanting to get into both?
MindOfEmpressA: Well a friend of mine had been in it for maybe over a year and kept trying to pull me along into it. I’ve always been a switch in my vanilla life with both sexes so it piqued my interest BUT I didn’t want to make any silly mistakes! Which OBVIOUSLY happened after I joined, it’s natural to f*ck up sometimes when you’re new! So, I made sure to have a brief understanding of findom, kink, and BDSM beyond “Fifty Shades of Grey”. Been at this crazy journey for 2 years with about a year and half of clip content with you guys!
Hm, well it’s done so much for me that I can’t really scrunch it into one box. Well, I’ll say the accomplishments, I guess! So, with my loyal fans and good boys I’ve been peacefully living in LA without paying rent no matter where I go! So fun having men do just about anything to be in my easy going life. I’ve done TONS of shopping to where I had to buy a mini closet to store everything and STILL can’t stop either! My schooling is covered, my dominant side is out free and living her life, I’ve met some of the greatest friends of my domming life, and that’s just the beginning! As for advice? Be yourself, use your “competition” as motivation and inspiration, $5 can become $500 real quick, believe in you when no one else does and obviously have fun!
Something about you that would surprise your fans?
MindOfEmpressA: Well, for some odd reason my age keeps getting assumed to be in the teens and nope! I’m 25 with a pinch of brat sometimes.
How did you build your confidence in this industry?
MindOfEmpressA: I’ve always been pretty confident about myself once I hit about 19 years old. However, being in this industry has had its ups and downs on my confidence. I’m pretty outspoken and not a 24/7 kink robot so I’m just about having fun, dominating and being myself while taking beta cash. Being an Ebony Domme can tough at times, kind of reminds me of high school in a way and the best way I went through it was building off what I was insecure about. I’m a beautiful black woman and love myself to the moon and back so no one can take that from me ever! As for this industry? I grew a thick skin and used hatred or just silly matters to make things happen. I was always doubted when I started which again was totally expected. But with the help of a loving community, my friends, my subs, clients that came and went, my experiences and my downfalls, they’ve shaped me into the strong, powerful, hot, dominant b*tch I am today!
What was the last gift you gave someone?
MindOfEmpressA: I sent my mom 2k back home to get herself a nice car and some well-deserved shopping on me *wink*
What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?
MindOfEmpressA: Okay so this isn’t REALLY absurd but the song “Old Town Road’ has been my FAVORITE since it dropped and I apply it in my life to point where my friends are not surprised if I tweet about it, horses or use the cowboy emoji. “I got the horses in the back”!
What’s your favorite ‘90s jam?
MindOfEmpressA: Every Little Step by Bobby Brown!
You walk into a market (any market) and buy only three things, what are they and why?
MindOfEmpressA: Dr. Pepper, Fave Red Starburst, and a Ham and Cheese Lunchable! My favorite snack combo, nom nom nom all day long.
What was the last job you held before joining iWantEmpire?
MindOfEmpressA: Good ol’ retail! AT&T Assistant Manager, great times and my persuasive skills followed me here *wink*
How did you get started on iWantClips?
MindOfEmpressA: I saw Miss Tierra having clip sales and was in awe of her store! Plus, so many other ebony clip creators which inspired me to dive deeper into kink by creating my own fetish porn for gooners and even fellow dommes to buy.
What are bad recommendations you hear given to people just starting in the industry?
MindOfEmpressA: Ugh. Well for one, not being realistic ABOUT this industry. Just as any other job, sex work, and fetish clips take dedication, perseverance and consistency! Never think anything is too easy. I understand we are painting a fantasy but leading young women into believing that this is a walk in the park is sooooo silly. I like to believe having a sense of reality gives you a deeper understanding of what you’re getting yourself into. I think the worse recommendation I got when I stepped into the scene was live verification was ALWAYS needed to show subs you are real. NOPE! Wrong, just a video, a clip site or fan site will do the job. Oh, and to comment under subs posts or message someone’s fan to make them buy their content or pay them because all subs are “up for grabs” which is a BIG no. Subs and fans can be found EVERYWHERE! Let them come to you and look hot while doing It!