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Astro Domina Discusses the Joys of Roleplay and Reveals Butt Scar Origins In This Week’s Artist Spotlight

by IWC
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Welcome to this week’s Artist Spotlight, bringing the community together by delving into our Artists’ most inspiring ideas and practices, as well as a few of their favorite things. This week we invite you to dive into deep sub space with natural sadist, Astro Domina. Beauty, booty, brains and a whip… let’s get to it.

What are some of your favorite aspects of being a Domme?

AD: I love the art of it all. The mind-fuckery, the power exchange, the outfits, the glamour, the responsibility of a “top”, all of it!

How would you describe your style as a clip producer and Domme?
AD: I am definitely the Kinky Asian-Girl-Next-Door-turned-Evil-Sadistic-Bitch.

What is the most memorable or noteworthy moment of being a Domme?

AD: Being interviewed by the BBC Network about my works, being nominated for the Pornhub Awards and bagging the XBIZ Best Fetish Clip Artist of 2020!

What are your favorite categories (fetish, JOI, roleplay, humiliation, etc) to perform in and why?

AD: Roleplay is slowly becoming one of my favorites. When given a part to play, my commitment to the role is unwavering. I don’t stop until someone tells me their safeword.

Please describe your ideal sub and what this person could do to impress you.

AD: My ideal sub should be committed, devoted, independent, a hard worker and knows how to compliment “AstroDomina”. Taking the extra mile and doing things for me without having to ask questions always impresses me.

Would you consider your work as a Domme to be your lifestyle, or do you enjoy a balance/separation between being a Domme and your personal life?

AD: I do enjoy the separation of my Dom life and my personal life (which, I am mostly dominant anyway). But knowing there is a separation is a calming feeling for me.

Please describe what being in the moment as a Domme feels like to you… Is it a rush? Exciting? Expected? Anything in between?

AD: Definitely a rush. You sort of lose yourself in the moment and nothing else matters.

 

If you had a theme song that played every time you entered a room, what would it be?

AD: “Sabotage” by Beastie Boys

 

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If you could go to dinner with any celebrity, living or dead, who would you choose?

AD: Angelina Jolie because she’s a badass bitch who turned her life around. Also Quentin Tarantino because I wanna know more about his Foot Fetish.

What’s one food you can’t stand to eat?

AD: I’m Asian. I eat anything!

What would your catchphrase be? 

AD: And remember folks… Stay Kinky!

What is the last book you read?

AD: Data, A Love Story by Amy Webb.

What is your dream home location?

AD: Melbourne, Australia!

 

What is something about you that would surprise your audience?

AD: My butt scar came from a bullet graze.

 

What was the last job you held before joining iWantEmpire?

AD: I was working for a of couple hotels in Las Vegas.

 

How did you get started on iWantClips?

AD: I saw a bunch of my friends on it so I decided to join the party!

What are bad recommendations you hear given to people just starting out in the industry?

AD: I don’t usually surround myself with people who give bad advice so I’m not quite sure!


What advice would you give to a new artist starting out in the industry?

AD: Invest in decent lighting for filming videos.

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Nina G Shines in the Glow of iWantClips’ Artist Spotlight

by IWC
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This week we shined the spotlight on popular dominatrix Nina G, as she discusses her love for dominating submissive boys and more in this week’s Artist Spotlight, exclusively from iWantClips

Let’s get right into it.

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If you could have one gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it— what would it say and why?

Nina G:     “My gigantic billboard would definitely say: »Don’t ever underestimate the power of an innocent looking lady« because honestly, I don’t look scary in a way some dommes do, but that doesn’t mean I cannot make weak men do crazy things for me. ;)”

Something about you that would surprise your audience?

Nina G:     “This should be very interesting. I play the piano. But not only that. I was raised Catholic and my parents and grandparents desperately wanted me to learn to play church organ, so I did and I used to play it for a few years at mass. And look at me now, I wound up in a completely different line of work. ;)”

What was the last gift you gave someone?

Nina G:     “I gave a bag of cranberries to my 2 yo nephew. He looooves them.”

What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months (or in recent memory)? 

Nina G:     “I’m really excited and happy whenever I buy something with my fans tributes, but I also love getting gifts. Fans know it already that I have an Amazon wishlist and the purchase that made me really happy was the anonymous fan’s purchase, he bought me a nice, black and deep blue corset and it fits me perfectly. You can see me wear it in some of the last 2 month’s clips ;)”

What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?

Nina G:     “Beside my love for books (I love peace and quiet, it relaxes me) I’m really a freak when it comes to my house & visitors. When I have people over I get really nervous if someone leaves even one drop of water, oil or anything sticky in my kitchen, or anywhere else. For example, I won’t let anyone juice the oranges because its juice could potentially end up on the floor and they could step on it and go around the place with it on their soles and that drives me nuts. Of course, I don’t let them know what’s going on in my head, haha 😉 But when it comes to dust, I’m lazy and very rarely clean it of the shelves”

What’s your favorite ’90s jam?

Nina G:       “Huh, this one is really tough. I love music in general. There is so many amazing songs, from Bon Jovi’s Bed of roses, Oasis’s Don’t look back in anger, to Green Day’s Basket case, I also love many songs of U2, Guns N’ Roses, The Cranberries, Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey… The list is almost endless.”

You walk into a market and buy only three things, what are they and why?

Nina G:    “Pineapple, ripe bananas, and coconut water. Because a smoothie of these ingredients combined is so yummy, so delicious that I can never get enough of it 😉 Like a Pina Colada, only healthier.”

What was the last job you held before joining iWantEmpire?

Nina G:     “Before IWantEmpire I wasn’t employed but I helped at my dad’s company, I did some student work at product promotions, basketball games, phone assistance, also tried cams”

How did you get started on iWantClips?

Nina G:     “This is an interesting story. First I told a friend that I tried as a cam girl but wasn’t really satisfied. So he suggested that I join one fetish website where I could sell clips. So I did. And there I got to know a nice guy who recommended IWantClips.com to me as he was sure that the system and the traffic was better and he was right. Soon after I didn’t need to do anything else for a living. Not to mention that I have so much fun dominating submissive boys, telling them what to do and making their lives more exciting.”

What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession?

Nina G:     “So if I understand this question correctly, you want me to tell you about bad recommendations I heard for this industry. I can’t say what recommendations were given to others, but I can definitely tell you my own experience – I heard a lot of »what if someone in your family finds out.« warnings. I can relate but if you love doing something, why would anyone’s opinion, even if it’s from a family member, stop you from living your passion. Teasing and dominating is my passion even though in my private life I’m not like this and people would definitely be shocked to find me in this line of work. But I won’t let anyone stop me. Also, I did hear someone say: » You should find something else, you’re not getting any younger.« And I don’t intend to NOW worry about what will I do in 10, 20 or 30 years. I have other passions too, I’m a painter too btw (as much as time allows me) J Life is just full of opportunities and as long as you live your passion, nothing can really stop you.

Thank you.”

For More Nina G Check Out Her iWantClips Store or Twitter Page

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iWantRadio Welcomes Fetish Artist Violet Doll.

by IWC
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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

iWantRadio Welcomes Fetish Artist Violet Doll  

Quintessential Clip Star to Discuss the Power of Fantasy
with Bratty Nikki and Dr Lovejoy on August 20!

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LOS ANGELES (August 20, 2018) – Popular iWantClips fetish artist Violet Doll will discuss the power of fantasy when she guests on iWantEmpire’s new erotic talk show, iWantRadio from 2 to 3 pm Pacific Time on Monday, August 20. The broadcast, hosted by Bratty Nikki and Dr. Michelle Lovejoy, airs on SiriusXM Channel 415.

“We are looking forward to chatting with the brilliant and intensely creative Violet Doll,” Lovejoy said. “She has single-handedly created one of the most successful brands in the independent clip community, and consciously created the life she wanted.”

The quintessential clip star has been the focus of much attention from the start, having entered the adult industry just a few years ago after answering an ad for cam girls. She dove headfirst into the world camming, but ultimately found her calling when she grew bored of the nudity and realized she would rather play out fetish fantasies to control her customers who would in turn pledge obedience and pay her tribute. Today, Violet Doll is among iWantClips’ top artists and constantly produces unique, chart-topping content. To visit her iWantClips store click here.

“I am excited to join Bratty Nikki and Dr. Lovejoy and talk about monetizing fantasy,” Doll said. “It gives me a great opportunity to provide insight about fetish artistry! It’s going to be a lot of fun!”

iWantRadio is dedicated to creating an open dialogue about human sexuality, fetish and evolution toward acceptance and celebration of consensual sex. iWantRadio airs every Monday, Wednesday and Friday on SiriusXM Channel 415 from 2-3pm PT/5-6pm ET. Listeners can call in by dialing 1-855-99-VIVID or (855) 998-4843. More information as well as a schedule of upcoming guests is available at iWantRadio.com. To be a guest, sponsor or to suggest a topic, email: Team@iWantRadio.com.

For more information visit iWantEmpire.com and iWantRadio.com.

About iWantRadio:

In Spring of 2018 iWantRadio debuted on Sirius XM Channel 415, as an aural extension of the iWantEmpire brand with live shows on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 5 – 6 PM.  Since its inception, iWantRadio has been on a mission to celebrate kink and fetish through thoughtful dialogue, education, role playing, and coaching. It encompasses a variety of topics such as body worship, humiliation, BDSM, financial domination, and features Gods and Goddesses, Mistresses and Masters, members of the LGBTQ community, Porn Stars, Comedians, Musicians, and all sexual beings: iWantRadio is the most inclusive sex talk show in the country. During each broadcast, hosts Dr. Michelle Lovejoy and Bratty Nikki make drive time enjoyable by using a combination of loose banter, charming and shrewd guests, topics designed to enlighten and improve your sexual experiences, advice, contests, and promotions. For more information, including the schedule of guests, visit iWantRadio.com.

About SiriusXM:

Sirius XM Holdings Inc. (NASDAQ: SIRI) is the world’s largest radio company measured by revenue and has approximately 32.7 million subscribers. SiriusXM creates and offers commercial-free music; premier sports talk and live events; comedy; news; exclusive talk and entertainment, and a wide-range of Latin music, sports and talk programming. SiriusXM is available in vehicles from every major car company and on smartphones and other connected devices as well as online at siriusxm.com. SiriusXM radios and accessories are available from retailers nationwide and online at SiriusXM. SiriusXM also provides premium traffic, weather, data and information services for subscribers through SiriusXM Traffic™, SiriusXM Travel Link, NavTraffic®, NavWeather™. SiriusXM delivers weather, data and information services to aircraft and boats through SiriusXM Aviation™ and SiriusXM Marine™. In addition, SiriusXM Music for Business provides commercial-free music to a variety of businesses. SiriusXM holds a minority interest in SiriusXM Canada which has approximately 2.8 million subscribers. SiriusXM is also a leading provider of connected vehicles services, giving customers access to a suite of safety, security, and convenience services including automatic crash notification, stolen vehicle recovery assistance, enhanced roadside assistance and turn-by-turn navigation.

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Please direct all booking and sponsor inquiries for iWantRadio to:

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Team@iWantRadio.com

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iWantEmpire Artists Featured in Glamour Magazine

by IWC
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iWantEmpire’s financial domination artists, the beautiful Bratty Nikki, and dominatrix Goddess Haven are featured in Glamour magazine’s January issue.

“We are extremely proud of Nikki and Haven for sharing their personal stories with Glamour’s readers,” said Jay Phillips, vice president of iWantEmpire. “They each brought an insightful and fresh perspective of their experiences as artists on the iWantEmpire platform, which will give readers a greater understanding of the benefits of independent entrepreneurism.”

For more on XBIZ, Melissa Santana‘s article of Bratty Nikki and Goddess Haven click here. The Glamour article can be found here.

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Who’s a Good Boy? Tips and Tricks on Being the Best Submissive You Can Be

by IWC
written by IWC

Making the decision to enter a D/s relationship, whether full or part time, is not one that should ever be made lightly. You may not have any doubts that you have a submissive personality, but that does not always immediately translate to automatically being a good or natural submissive. Being part of a Dom/sub relationship and belonging to someone as their submissive requires a certain level of self-discipline, along with a certain mindset. Here’s a look at some tips and tricks for being the kind of sub that any Master would be happy to call his or her own.

Choose Your Dom/Domme Carefully

This will be the most important decision you will make as a sub. Keep in mind that the decision is ultimately yours and that the power is entirely in your hands here. Nobody can force you into submission, and if someone is attempting to push you into a decision, you should look at the entire situation as a huge red flag.

Know Your Own Limits

You can’t expect your Dom to respect your limits if you aren’t clear and upfront about them. Think about what you’re uncomfortable doing, what’s negotiable, and what is a firm no for you. Write them down and communicate them clearly with your dominant early. Knowing and sharing your soft and hard limits, both physical and mental/emotional, will eliminate potential pitfalls later, so it’s essential to talk about them before things get serious.

Understand That Perfection is a Myth

Too many submissives feel that unless they are perfect in their submission at all times, their dominants won’t appreciate them or will somehow be angry or disappointed in them. The truth is that not only are dominants understanding that subs are humans with flaws, they actually enjoy a submissive that acts out or is bratty from time to time, as it gives them an opportunity to exert power and discipline. Blind obedience can actually be a bit tedious. And just as the Dom enjoys the feeling of taking control and demonstrating his power, the submissive also enjoys these displays as it allows them to feel safe and loved.

Understand the D/s Relationship is Not Solely About Sex

In fact, it’s not even mainly about sex–it’s about control and power. There are even full-time power exchange relationships that don’t involve sex at all, or are mainly service-oriented. Again, communication is essential, and understanding your role and what is expected of you will help make you the best submissive possible within the realm of your relationship.

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Eager Slave Finally Gets to Serve His Goddess in Person by Goddess Valora

by IWC
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About Me: I’m Goddess Valora. I am a professional online and real time Domme. I have been doing this for the past 3 years. I have 3 successful clip stores, loyal slaves, awards, and the best industry friends.

My life is fetish and I wouldn’t change that for anything in the world.

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Sometimes it takes subs awhile to go from an online relationship with a Domme to an in-person relationship. For one such sub, let’s call him Rob; it took over a year. I first started talking to Rob over a phone-based site I worked for in 2015. He was my first big regular on there and dropped close to $3000 on me in the course of a few months, in the form of cash and mostly gifts.

Rob had a session booked with me around that time frame, but cancelled it. Afterwards, I didn’t really hear from him for over a year. Then recently he resurfaced, asking to book a session. I made him put down $100 deposit in case he flaked again. Rob showed up, barring lovely gifts; 5 bath bombs from LUSH, a $50 gift card to Starbucks plus my coffee order (grande caramel macchiato, 3 shots espresso, soy milk. Take notes)

Before our session, dearest Rob had purchased 3 clips of mine from iWantClips, one of which was a human ashtray clip. He greeted me at my dungeon with coffee and gifts, handed him my cigarettes and ashtray to carry, and sauntered off to our reserved area in my pentagram bikini (purchased by Rob) and big knee high boots. I took a seat on the couch and made him get down on his knees before me. I had him light my cigarette and begged to kiss and lick my beautiful boots.

One of my favorite things to do is to watch the facial expressions of men in my presence. I like to watch them be taken off guard and tremble. I watched Rob’s quivering lips as he kissed my boots and begged to lick the bottoms of my shoes. As I blew smoke in his face, I laughed. The dungeon floor is notorious for being disgusting, and watching his tongue lick that filth off my boots tickled me. What can I say? I’m kind of a fucked up sadist.

When my cigarette was finally down to the last little puff, I told dear subby Rob to beg for me to put it out on his tongue. He did. The sizzle of the hot ember touching his tongue and the little painful noise he made was like music to my ears. I continued to do that about 2 more times during our session. I wanted to make sure every bit of food and beverage Rob put in his greedy little mouth would instantly remind him of me for the following week.

Rob was a sweetheart, as most submissives are. He worshipped my feet, I spit on him, trampled him, and chitchatted about industry gossip. I made him give me my cash in his mouth like a dog, then used my feet to press the money against his face. All in all it was a fun time.

This goes to show that if submissives are serious about you, they will make the time. Sometimes it takes over a year, but once you’re in their heads, they eventually must come back to get more. The submissive male brain is a glutton for punishment and desire.

Get to know Goddess Valora a little bit better by going to Goddess Valora’s Clip Store or visit her on Twitter @GoddessValora and Instagram @GoddessValora.

 

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How I Became a Domme by Mistress Satine

by IWC
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Many fans and subs have asked how I entered the Femdom lifestyle so I decided I would use my first blog post with iWantClips to introduce myself, Mistress Satine, and give you some insight as to how I became involved in the fetish world. I have loved every minute of it and have learned so much over the years. I have met some amazing, wonderful people and it has really changed my life.

It all started shortly after graduation. I was in school, working two jobs to pay for my expenses and luxuries while being a full time student. I was working at On the Border, a Tex-Mex restaurant, as a waitress when a customer approached me before leaving and asked if they could have my work socks. I essentially shoo’ed the man away and was not so kind in my wording. About a week or two later, he returned to the restaurant again and said he wanted my work socks and would be willing to pay whatever I wanted for them.

To add some back story, I have always had a dominant side where I have loved to control men, using whatever I could to manipulate them into doing things I wanted. I had my share of boyfriends in school as well as my share of admirers who wanted nothing more than to be allowed to breathe the same air as me. I can even recall a situation where a boy had come to my house to hang out, things went south and he teased me over the color of my gorgeous red hair. He was taught a lesson by yours truly, went home crying and came back the next day with flowers, candy and asked if he could be my boyfriend. He was denied.

So, back to how I entered the Femdom world. The customer, who had returned, again requested to purchase my work socks and said he would give me whatever I wanted for them. I smiled and told him I wanted two hundred dollars or he could disappear forever and if he ever came back, I would inform my supervisors of his pathetic behavior. He left and I figured I had scared him away. He returned about twenty minutes later with a withdrawal receipt from the Bank of America that was just around the corner and two hundred dollars cash. Once he handed me the cash and thanked me for the privilege of buying my socks, I sat down on the curb, right outside the restaurant and made him untie my sneakers. As he unlaced and loosened my sneakers, I directed him to remove the sneaker and smell it since he was so keen on having my sweaty work socks. I wanted him to really understand what he was asking for. He lifted my size 6 black Reebok classics to his nose and took the biggest deep breath I had ever seen. He looked as if he had smelled the most delicious meal after being starved for weeks. He set them down once they were removed and removed the socks from my feet, one by one.  I allowed him to take the socks and then directed him to leave. He became my first “regular” slave, took me to my first dungeon and served me until I moved out of state. We occasionally keep in touch and he does still buy my socks, toe clippings and foot dust every now and again. Old habits die hard, don’t they?

As time went by, I found more and more fetishes turned me on and I was also able to identify my hard limits and what boundaries I was willing to explore and push personally. I found a love for financial domination, total power exchange, blackmail fantasy as well as home wrecker fantasies and role play. The fetish world was the one place I could express myself, in all aspects, and not be judged or told to behave differently because “that’s not how women act”. I found freedom, family and acceptance of sexual creativity, amongst other things, in the BDSM lifestyle. I am glad I found the lifestyle and I hope you enjoyed taking the time to get to know me, Mistress Satine.

Get to know Mistress Satine a little bit better by going to iWantMistressSatine or visit her on Twitter @MistressSatine and Instagram MistressSatine.

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Dom? Sub? Daddy? Babygirl? Kitten? Kinkster? What’s it All Mean, Anyway? (And Which One Are You?)

by IWC
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With the growing popularity of social networks like FetLife, geared specifically towards fetish and kink–along with an increasingly relaxed atmosphere towards openly talking about facets of sex and sexuality within the realm of art, books, and movies, today’s culture is one that leans towards the kinds of discussions that break down silences and taboos and get people talking about the things that were once only whispered about in the dark. But before you can learn to open up and explore, you need to have a basic understanding of the vernacular–a grasp of the common terms and phrases you’re likely to encounter on the websites and among the social circles that specialize in kink, fetish, BDSM, and alternative sexuality. For starters, here’s a look at some of the sexual “orientation” options you’re likely to encounter.

Keep in mind that these are not all-inclusive, and the definition itself will often vary depending on the relationship and parameters of the particular website or community you happen to be working within. In addition to mainstream terms like straight, gay, lesbian, and bisexual, many kink and fetish communities will offer choices that include:

Heteroflexible/Homoflexible: A heteroflexible person is one that is described as someone who is primarily straight, but is willing to consider relationships or encounters with someone of the same sex. Likewise, homoflexible refers to a person who is primarily attracted to those of the same sex, but will occasionally be drawn to those of the opposite sex.

Dominant/Dom/Domme: A dominant is someone who takes on the dominant or leading role in a sexual relationship, in turn controlling the submissive partner. It’s a broad term that can either be a full time Master or Mistress position or simply a top during sexual scenes. Domme is the female variant of Dom, which is itself the shortened version of dominant. There is more to being a Dom than simply whipping and spanking. Doms often take on a guiding or leading role in their subs lives, providing discipline, leadership, and depending on their subs needs, punishment and affection as well.

Submissive/Sub: On the flip side from the Master or Mistress is the submissive. What many people may not realize is that there are several different varieties of “bottoms”; that is, someone who prefers to take on a more submissive role. In addition to the traditional sub, there are sexual slaves–those who perform sex acts for their Master without question, as well as pets (which can be used as a term of endearment for subs as well as to refer to those who indulge in pet play), brats and babygirls. Brats are bottoms who enjoy the struggle or challenge of fighting their top, ultimately being brought to submission after a bit of rough play. Babygirls can combine their brand of submission with ageplay, though the two are not necessarily intertwined. In reality it’s a type of affectionate submissive that looks towards a more guiding, leadership-driven Dom (often these subs seek out “Daddy Doms”)

Switch: A switch is someone who identifies as both dominant and submissive and can go back and forth between the two roles.

Ageplayer: An ageplayer is someone who enjoys a type of roleplaying where one individual acts as if they were a different (often younger) age than they actually are. It should be noted that this is entirely different than pedophilia. Age playing does not mean that a person is actually attracted to people who are under aged. It is the act of feeling like they are being taken care of and child-like that draws them in to this type of submissive relationship.

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